Reinforcement – Telling People What They’re Doing Right

If you are like most people you truly believe that if you reinforce the behavior you’re looking for, you’re probably going to get more of it.   Do you believe that?  Somehow we feel its okay to reinforce two populations:  small children and dogs.  If it works on small children and dogs, do you suppose it works on grown ups?  Of course it does!  Most people generally hear criticism or they hear nothing.  Yet, most of us thrive on being told what we are doing right.  Therefore, make a point of increasing the frequency of telling everybody what they’re doing right.  You’re at very low risk of doing it too much.  So if you’re terrific, that’s terrific.  If other people are terrific, tell them!